Gosh life is going crazy right now. You really receive from the universe what you ask for. It is kind of scary but humbling at the same time. I have been going over the question “How do you know whether you met some special” so many times with my friends, and I keep coming back to what I have always believed to be true. Here is how you know you are in love trouble – i.e. flying high on love!
1) You just know when you meet someone for the very first time, whether they are going to throw your life up side down or not. If you don’t have this instant feeling, run!!!!
2) You lose appetite. That feeling of love is giving you so much energy that you hardly need to eat anything, you are constantly high on love.
3) You are flying in love. – not falling in love. You feel that you are being pulled up to a place where there is no doubt about what you feel. Something that is universal, something that is directed towards the heaven, which is so much bigger and hence cannot be bottled up in anything. A word like relationship does not even come close to what you feel for the other person. You are not in a relationship, you are in love!!!!
4) You know what the other person feels because you feel the same way. Love can only be shared, love is not one sided. If you believe to be in love but the other person is not – trust me you are not, you have a desire to fill a vacuum but you are not in this place where there is shared love.
5) You reach happiness no more games, no more pains. Love is something that fills your heart, something that makes you shine from the inside. If you have to play games with someone to find out what you mean to them, trust me it is not love.
6) You love equally as much. Often times, one partner loves more than the other, something is wrong when that is the case, because love between people is what you both tap into. You cannot tap into different pots of love. If that is the case you are not sharing love.
7) You feel the other person - ALWAYS! You know that they think of you, you don’t doubt their actions or words, you just know, because you feel the same way.
8) You have absolutely no doubt and I know we have all been hurt and try to be more guarded with our heart, but when it is true love, it will have to break through within the first few hours. You know that you are going to lose something that has been send to you by the universe if you don’t take all your bravery and jump, become extremely honest with your feelings and let them take control over your life.
9) Your rational YOU stops working - trust me, that is incredibly scary. But love is nothing that changes with age. Whether you are 8, 18, 80, the way you love will not change. So the more childish you are around that person you are going for, the more you know not that this is the real deal. If you are all normal and controlled, well mannered and calm – forget it! This shared feeling makes your hormones go crazy until they have gotten used to that new feeling of love. Until that is the case, you are unfortunately (or as I would say, luckily) back in puberty.
10) You know this person was given to you by a higher power - I know this sounds crazy, but you feel that you did not pick that person, but that this person was send to you. There is something very holy and humbling about that experience.
Don’t wast your time not being in love, doubting your feelings, questioning what someone means to you. When you love you love – easy, just like when you are hungry you are hungry, you are also not doubting that feeling of hunger – and trust me, you don’t wonder for weeks, months or years, whether you are hungry either